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The Science Behind Habit Formation: My Journey to Mastering Daily Routines
I remember staring at the crumpled bag of chips on my desk, a casualty of my latest midnight snack spree. It was a small thing, but it was also a big red flag: my habits needed a makeover.
Like many, I assumed that building or breaking habits was a matter of willpower. If I wanted to change, I just needed to want it badly enough, right? Wrong. My journey into the world of habit formation revealed a complex interplay between cues, routines, and rewards — a cycle that, once understood, could be harnessed to reshape any aspect of one’s life.
The Cue-Routine-Reward Loop
At the heart of every habit is a three-part process. First comes the cue, a trigger that tells your brain to go into automatic mode. Then there’s the routine, which can be physical, mental, or emotional. Finally, the reward helps your brain figure out if this particular loop is worth remembering for the future.
For me, the cue was often stress or boredom, the routine was snacking, and the reward was a fleeting sense of satisfaction. Recognizing this loop was the first step in changing it.
Neuroplasticity and Change
Neuroplasticity, the brain’s ability to reorganize itself by forming new neural…